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I had a bit of a brain parrot melt down earlier but feel better now... like I said, I'm getting there. That said I had a productive chat about things with Scoob and I understand things a bit better now. I mean it still stings a lot but it hurts less.... look at me adulting all over the place woo! I guess I just need to stop placing so much of my self worth into someone else? I don't know, I feel like it's something I've always unintentionally done, felt I've needed someone by my side to prove to myself that I am loveable? That I need someone else to reaffirm that I am worth love and am loveable? Does that make sense? It's complete bullshit and I need to learn to love myself, I don't think I am going to be able to do it on my own and I am hoping eventual therapy when I get it will help me but yeah. That's where I am with that. Talking of therapy I had a CBT assessment over the phone with Time to Talk this morning and they basically decided that their service can't help me and I am being referred on to the proper mental health services, this is good because it's what I wanted and it's where I need to be but I don't know what the wait is on that, I've got to hold on till then. That said I've found a new coping method for when my SH urges are on the brink, I've been coming close the last few days and I read somewhere that holding an ice cube tightly in your hand and letting it melt gives a similar sensation. I thought I'd give it a try and I was sceptical but it actually kind of does work and helped a lot. It doesn't feel the same at first but perservere with it and yeah... it's a really good alternative and no harm done in the process. I would recommend to other sufferers on my list that you give it a try, it may be helpful.

I'm not happy about Hannibal being cancelled.... what the fuck is that shit about? As I was in the middle of my meltdown when I heard it burnt my fuse and I punched the floor pretty hard. In hindsight that was stupid but tbh the floor will cope and I needed to direct my frustration somewhere. Yeah, I am overly upset about the fact it's been pulled. I hope someone else picks it up, I don't follow a lot of TV but Hannibal has me utterly hooked and it's one of the most intruiging and beautifully shot pieces of television I've seen in a long time. ;___;

Anyway the main purpose of this entry is to, of course, update you all on my raising as a Swordbearer yesterday. I can truthfully say that it was one of the biggest moments of my life, a true honour and everything that happened that day was a true sign that I had taken a step onto the right path. I was really worried that the trains would be all messed up because the last couple of Sundays when I've had ceremonies there have been bus replacements and all kinds of nusiance delays that have caused me to be late. It's not really a massively big deal if I am a bit late because we never start dead on 2pm anyway but I hate being late regardless. I've found that it's quicker and easier for me to get the train to Cosham instead of Fratton now, I used to have to get a taxi to the grove from Fratton which could be very expensive because ceremonies are always on Sundays but from Cosham it's a straight ten minute walk and about the same cost on the train as it would be to Fratton. The trains played nice, the weather was absolutely lovely and warm and I was actually the first one to the grove on that day which is a first and was nice as it gave me time to collect myself and attune to the energies there and gather my thoughts and intent towards the ceremony and raising. There was a huge turn out of new and old faces, more people then I have seen turn up for a ceremony for a very long time and it was really wonderful. I was raised immediately after calling for peace in the quarters, being nervous I messed up and called North when I meant West but I laughed it off and corrected myself and everyone in the circle was laughing with me not at me I knew, the sun's energy really bought out so much happiness and positivity that day.

I was called into the circle to kneel in front of Steve and Mel, the Archdruid and Archdruidess and give my vows. I have included my copy which I intend to frame so you can see what that entails, I tried to memorise it and did adapt it a little but I am glad I had the prompt in front of me regardless because I was muddling over my words a lot from nerves. The raising itself was a little like being knighted in the traditional sense, it's probably the best way to describe it for those that haven't ever seen it happen and reminded me a lot of when I was raised as a gatekeeper and then raised again as a full member of the Genesis Order back at the Summer Solstice of 2011 at our private ceremony at Stonehenge. I kneel, offer my service and once Mel and Steve accept Steve touches my right shoulder, head and left shoulder with his athame and then bids me to stand after offering the hilt of the sword in service. The sword I carry in these photos was actually lent to me by Mel's partner B for the purpose of the ceremony and I am continuing to borrow it until the sword that I am having made for me has been forged. It was surprisingly light despite how big it looks, I admit I was a bit worried about raising it to the air for the first time when calling for peace but I did manage it. It was just everyone was so tightly packed in and I was nervous I might accidently hurt someone so I was very conscious the whole time but I will improve in time, I know I am right for the role, I've never felt more at peace within the grove then I have now in this role. From the moment I lifted the sword I just felt such purpose and just completely at peace with myself, to be named guardian and protecter of the Order like that is just such an incredible honour to be trusted with and I've had the approval of some very high up and well respected guardians and swordbearers from other Orders that has really meant the world to me. Steve has also rewritten the ceremonies so I have a lot more to say and they are more spiritually orientated rather than informative, so they have a more personal feel and it really made a difference. Before when James, and briefly B, were swordbearers they didn't do much except for call for peace and witness the odd raising but this time I actually witnessed and oversaw Hannah getting raised as a trainee guardian and Gatekeeper (my old role) and had a large opening speech to give. I felt very involved and empowered and really felt people felt comfortable with my overseeing the energy while we celebrated. :)

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The raising as it happened.

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My oath.

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The gift from a crow I found in the Grove when I arrived.... a good omen. :)

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I know a few of you, in particular [livejournal.com profile] ganimede, have been interested to know what being a Swordbearer actually entails. Well it's a difficult but very rewarding path. There are many branches within the practice of Druidry that you can take if you choose; the path of the bard which are the songwriters, story tellers and poets of the Order - the keeper of our history and lore and the ones who keep our traditions alive through their crafts. Then there are the ovates - the healers, self explanitory but important and versed in spiritual healing as well as the physical sides of healing. They will often be interested in plant lore and herbal healing. There are the Priests and Priestesses, in charge of training others, handing out the bread and mead and taking a lead role alongside the Arches in conducting the ceremony, honouring the Gods and Goddesses and passing round mead and bread, taking the measure and raising new initiates etc. Then there are the Guardians and warriors - my path. You start out as the gatekeeper, the guardians of the gateway into the circle and it's pretty much what it says on the tin. You may have seen photos of myself and Kimberly doing this in the past at Stonehenge where we create an arch with our staffs. We are creating a magical gateway into the circle once it's cast that is closed when we cross our staffs keeping the circle protected and the energy within free from ill intent both of physical and magical form. It is the first step onto the path of becoming a Guardian. It's taken me six years to prove my worth as a Swordbearer because it is a whole other level of responsibility although a lot of what I do is the same as the Gatekeeper. Not only am I responsible for protecting the energy of the Circle and it's participants while we celebrate but I also have the power to challenge anyone I believe comes to the Circle with ill intent and prevent them from attending. Other swordbearers cannot bring their swords into the Circle without my permission and people must speak to me first if they wish to prematurely break the circle to leave or to cross it while we are celebrating. This is very important because the circle must remain closed while we are practising to keep focus and intent or the ceremony may be disrupted. I over see raisings and am basically the warrior aspect of the circle, I keep us safe. That does not mean I go around stabbing and threatening people who might cause ill intent and I will never raise my sword in anger, but it does mean that I am the first port of call if anyone wishes to enter the circle once the ceremony has begun.

I may also be called upon in times of need, say if there was unrest between other Orders and guidance and protection was needed. I am to keep the peace and walk a path of honour and truth. I feel very, very priviledged to be chosen finally. I put my name forward two years ago but the position was offered to B, I was not ready then but I am definitely ready now. Odin has put me on this path and I had so many signs yesterday that I was on the right path. Not only did I find the crow feather right in the middle of the grove (crows, ravens and magpies are important spiritually to me as you know) but my totem magpies were all around during the ceremony and as I walked back from a long stint at the pub after the ceremony with James my other totem the red fox appeared. A beautiful young fox, very healthy with a lovely brush tail crossed bare feet from me as I approached the bridge that leads away from the Grove over the A27. He or she stopped to stare at me, having just caught a rat for a meal, swished it's ears back and forth and looked me directly in the eye then loped away. I had bare seconds and so there are no photos because I just wanted to take in the moment and the message but it was truly a blessing and a beautiful moment. I feel so blessed.

Everything else so far, for the most part, this year has been utter rubbish.... so I see this as the first seed in my crop of good karma that I feel is well deserved. These are the things I need to focus on and fan the flames of progress and intent towards.... these things must be my focus. I only hope I can prove my Order right in their faith in me. <3

Date: 2015-06-23 01:09 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] siduri1959
You look amazing in the photos! Congrats!

And as a Constantine fan, let me say...I feel your pain.

Date: 2015-06-23 01:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meri-sielu.livejournal.com
Thank you! Can I just ask... the photos are working yeah? LJ is being really buggy my end and I can't see if they are or not... all I can see is lots of code. :/

Date: 2015-06-23 12:00 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] siduri1959
I can see it all just fine. Yeah, LJ has been wonkly with photos, have noticed that, too.

Date: 2015-06-23 01:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] deepseasiren.livejournal.com
I definitely believe with all my heart good things are headed your way my friend after all the difficulties, trials and tribulations you have been through this year and survived intact. You are strong, brave and beautiful and you deserve the best.

Date: 2015-06-23 01:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] night-owl-9.livejournal.com
You look terrific in the photos!

You'll get there. I know you will.

Good Lord, I am just baffled by Hannibal's cancellation. Just...why.

Date: 2015-06-23 02:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gaiman-phile.livejournal.com
First, congratulations, again, for this honour you've been given. I don't know much about your religion, but what you have shared here, it sounds like it's a beautiful ritual to behold. The way you described it, I felt like I was there.

I hope this doesn't come off as sounding like I'm mocking you, this is so not my intention, but I think with all the bad stuff that's happened to you this year (and it's only June), the grace you've shown in handling each thing as it's come, that's surely caused some good karma to be racked up in your favour, right? You didn't buckle, you didn't fold. You took things as they came. Sure, some things were harder to bear than others, but you didn't back down. You faced everything head-on, with a grace and strength I only wish I possess a fraction of. You are amazing, Lana. Your spiritual guides - both human and ethereal - have seen that, and this shows how ready you are for the role you've been given in your Order.

I know you will do a wonderful job keeping your friends and loved ones in your Order protected from harm. Kudos, dear friend. You've been given something wonderful because YOU are wonderful and YOU DESERVE IT.

Second, I love, love, love, love, love how in-tune with nature you are. I'd see a fox and think, "Aww! That's so cute!" and go about my day. You see a fox, and you see it for what it is, your totem reaching out to you, a sign that things are finally unfolding in your favour. I truly believe that Mother Nature, whomever she is, sees you for how you really are, someone who appreciates the significance of a random meeting like that, and has blessed you with that chance meeting with that little fox. Animals are excellent judges of character, as I'm sure you already know. I believe this to be a universal thing, not just domestic animals like cats, dogs, birds. I believe this to be all animals. That little fox, whether his message to you was, "Hey, love, it's dinner time!" or something much, much deeper than that, the connection that needed to happen, did. I've been told my spiritual animal is the cat. I don't know how, but I'll go with it. I don't follow that path anymore, but I am aware of it and willing to listen if Nature has a message for me. I'm willing to make the time for Her. I believe She is trying to reach out to us all, we need but take a second to stop and appreciate Her attempt.

I hope you understand what I'm saying. <3 I feel like I'm stumbling and tripping over my words here.

Date: 2015-06-23 02:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nutmeg3.livejournal.com
I'm extremely happy for you on all counts. I feel as if things are falling into place now, as if your path as a swordbearer is indicative of your path as a whole. Big *hugs*

Date: 2015-06-23 02:40 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] wolf.livejournal.com
You are lovable for sure and do indeed deserve to be loved no matter what! ♥ I hope that you get to a place where you can love yourself. *hugs* I also really hope that you will be able to get into therapy and that the wait isn't too long!

I still haven't seen Hannibal but it's been on the top of my list! I just have no free time for shows right now. It's so disappointing that it's being canceled! :(

Congratulations on being raised as Swordbearer! I'm so happy for you!! ♥ You also look amazing in the photos! Thank you, too, for more information on the ceremony and what Swordbearing entails! Druidry is very interesting to me, so I love learning about what I can. :D

Date: 2015-06-23 09:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meathiel.livejournal.com
Congratulations!
I'm sure - like you already did - you'll manage what is thrown at you in the future.

Date: 2015-06-23 10:26 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gonzo21.livejournal.com
I'm not sure Hannibal has been cancelled so much as they only ever intended it to run for 3 seasons anyway. This season really has felt like the third act so far. And Bryan Fuller has a new job with American Gods that he's moving on to anyway.

So I hope they knew this season was the last one some time ago anyway, the story will develop in that way. Fingers crossed anyway.

Date: 2015-06-23 06:05 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] gutterfl0wer.livejournal.com
I was surprised about Hannibal...Richard Armitage had a guest starring role didn't he? Seemed like it was going from strength to strength rather than on the verge of getting cancelled.

You look rather magnificent in the robes with the sword :D

Date: 2015-06-23 09:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] herecirm.livejournal.com
The ice cube thing actually works? That's so weird ... but I'm glad for you that it does. *hug*

Such fantastic news about being named swordbearer. :) You are absolutely on the right path, I'm sure of it. Well done, you 100% deserve it! <3

Date: 2015-06-23 10:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] meri-sielu.livejournal.com
I was surprised but yeah, the burning numbing sting is a very similar sensation... it's helpful to have that choice when I'm feeling the way I am at the moment. :)

Thank you, that really means a lot <3

Date: 2015-06-25 03:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] koyaaniisqatsi.livejournal.com
This is such a wonderful entry! You look amazing in those photos and have a strong energy about you! Your explanation about various roles was so fascinating to read. Congratulations to you! Hold onto these good feelings and signs. <3

(PS: I hope Hannibal gets picked up somewhere else.)

Date: 2015-06-25 07:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ganimede.livejournal.com
A friend of mine has a daughter who was self-harming quite badly and when I was looking into resources for her, I found that suggestion given as an alternative. I'm glad it works for you. I also found her the NSHN forum (http://www.nshn.co.uk/forum/), I don't know if you're aware of it but it might be useful.

Excellent pictures and thank you for the explanation, it's all so interesting and I love learning about new things. I'm glad that you've finally got your feet on the right path :)

Date: 2015-06-28 04:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ellierachael.livejournal.com
Congrats Swordbearer :)

Date: 2015-07-01 12:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] caninepawprints.livejournal.com
You look amazing!

Date: 2015-07-01 05:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] belenen.livejournal.com
oh wow, this is so beautiful and I am so happy that it went so perfectly and that the magpies and fox and crow all gave you such signs! The fox part in particular gave me shivers!

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